Paul writes in his letter to the Ephesians, chapter one:
“For He chose us in Him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in His sight. In love He predestined us to be adopted as His sons through Jesus Christ, in accordance with His pleasure and will— to the praise of His glorious grace, which He has freely given us in the One He loves.”
Adoption is on my mind recently. A colleague of mine and his wife are in the process of adoption. A member of my congregation and friend recently shared a powerful story of his own life as an adopted son. My congregation is creating a ministry ( “Embrace”) to encourage support for foster children and to promote adoption. Adoption is on my mind.
I was raised by my biological parents. They had little choice in the matter of what their son looked like, his Intelligence Quotient, his personality strengths and weaknesses, etc. By God’s great grace they loved me and did a wonderful job raising a difficult, sometimes strong willed, son.
It seems to me adoptive parents have options. They can make choices not offered to biological parents. Not being adopted, I wonder if that deepens and enriches the bond between parent and child. The adoptive child knows he or she was chosen. There was an option to say, “no thanks”. There were other choices that could have been made. You were not only loved. You were chosen. You were picked out!!
Paul reminds us the heavenly Father chose us to be His adopted children. He knew what a rebellious, angry, hurtful, selfish, and uncaring son I was capable of being. He knew beforehand I would live up to that potential far too many times. He knew all my bad habits and yet, despite knowing all this, He chose to adopt me….and you. Talk about feeling special…Talk about a love that goes beyond comprehension…God’s love is beyond awesome!
He chose us to be “holy” and “blameless”. Holy means to be different, special, unique. He chose us to be different from those not part of the family. He chose to be different from the world and its values. He chose us to know Himself and to become more and more like Himself.
He chose us to be blameless. Through the death of His “begotten” Son Jesus Christ I am washed clean. I am forgiven in His blood. Washed clean and forgiven I am now “blameless” in His sight. Did I do “it”? Yes, I did. But it is washed away and I am blameless in His sight. He cannot see me for what I am at times or what I do at times. He sees a “clean” son, blameless and loved.
Wow! Adoption is a powerful reality. It is an act of love. It reaches out to children in need. God is our example. Some of us will be called to follow His example. OSL and Embrace stand ready to help you. God bless all the adopted children.